Second Sunday of Advent, Year C, December 9, 2021
Malachi 3:1-4
Luke 1:68-79
Philippians 1:3-11
Luke 3:1-6
Preached by Pastor Anna C. Haugen, Chinook and Naselle Lutheran Churches, WA
May the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord.
Grace and peace to you from God our Father, and the Lord Jesus Christ.
In the secular world, December is about adding things. More lights! More presents! More parties! More concerts! More decorations! More family gatherings! Everything has to look nice, everything has to be friendly and warm and inviting, even if only on a surface level. There will be guests coming, so everything has to look good, even if nothing substantial has really changed. For some, the spirit of the holidays is deep and true and they experience all the love and joy that we’re supposed to, but for many people, it’s just an illusion. Skin deep. Make believe. Let’s paper over the cracks and hide the stains. We don’t have time to really change things, we don’t have time to fix the fundamental flaws in the foundation of our lives, so let’s ignore them and hope nobody notices. Let’s pretend everything’s good, let’s pretend our relationships are stronger than they are, let’s pretend that everything is as happy and loving as we wish it were. If we’re busy enough, if there are enough presents and cookies and carols on the radio, maybe we won’t notice the problems underneath.
Our readings tell a different story. As we look forward to the coming of the Day of the Lord, the coming of Christ, Malachi tells us that God will remove things. Malachi likens God to a silversmith, who takes rock containing silver ore and crushing it and burning it until the silver is left and the rock has been discarded. We are that ore, and we are filled with both good things—the silver—and bad things—the rock. We are children of God, created in God’s image; we have so much good in us, love and generosity and kindness and joy and hope and creativity and many other things. Even the worst human beings have some of these good things in them. But we are also broken by the sin and death of the world, and so we have things like greed and hate and jealousy and cruelty and selfishness and apathy and so many other things. Even the best human beings have these bad things in them.
And the thing is, those bad things cause us pain, and they cause the people around us pain, and they cause the world pain, and they cause God pain, because God knows our potential and God knows the true cost of our thoughts, words, and actions. We can lie to ourselves, justify every bit of vitriol and vindictiveness, every petty act of selfishness, every moment of indifference to the suffering of our fellow human beings. We can fool ourselves into thinking ourselves perfectly righteous even as we make the world more broken through our actions and inactions. But we cannot fool God. We cannot lie to God. Like a smith, God can tell the difference between raw ore and pure silver. And God can and does work to refine the silver and remove the impurities. Some of that refining work happens now, in our lives in this world. Some of it will happen later, when Christ comes again. Because the thing is, those impurities, those bad things in our hearts and minds, they can’t enter God’s kingdom. All those little evils and self-justifications are the product of this world. They cannot survive into the next. Only the good parts—love and wisdom and generosity and joy and all the rest—can come with us into God’s kingdom. We need to be purified. We need to be healed. We need to be refined.
We need to repent. But when I say repent, I don’t mean the self-righteous and condemning way most people understand that word. It’s not about feeling guilty, it’s not about beating yourself up for all the problems, it’s not about punishment. When a silversmith is smelting ore to get the silver out of it, he’s not doing it because he wants to punish the rocky bits. He’s not putting it in the fire to make the silver feel bad about having impurities in it. The silversmith is removing all the stuff that’s keeping the silver from being most truly itself. The point is not what the silver was, it’s what the silver will be. Likewise, when you’re cleaning something, you’re not doing it to hurt the thing your cleaning, or make it feel bad about being dirty. You clean to get the dirt out, so that it can be good and useful and right. That’s what repentance is: it’s one of the steps of cleaning and purifying your soul and life, so that you can be good and loving and most truly the person God created you to be.
You’ve probably heard pastors say this before, but “repent” literally means “to turn around.” To change. To set yourself on a new path. It’s about recognizing that things are wrong, and figuring out what you need to do and say and think differently so that things can be better. So that you can be better. It’s about acknowledging your own responsibility for doing and saying and thinking bad things, but it’s also about taking responsibility for doing things differently next time. And it’s not easy! Nobody likes admitting they were wrong. Nobody likes admitting when they have hurt people, nobody likes realizing that they have caused suffering, whether that’s their own pain or the pain of others. But if you want to stop doing those things, you have to first realize what you’re doing, and why they’re a problem. It hurts, it doesn’t feel good, but it’s a necessary first step.
The thing is, it’s only the first step. It’s not the end goal! The end goal is a better life filled with love and all the fruits of the Spirit. The end goal is to follow Christ more closely, to be the people God created us to be. The point of acknowledging guilt and sin is not to wallow in it, but to identify what needs to change and why, so that you can throw out the trash and build something better. We tend to get stuck in this step, a lot, because it’s hard to throw things out even when you know they’re bad. So we confess our sins, and we feel bad for them, but we don’t actually do anything to change because that would be hard and we’re comfortable as we are. A textbook example of this is white guilt, where white people who want to look like they care about racism will talk about all the awful things white society has done and continues to do to Black people, Native Americans, and other people of color, but they don’t actually work to change things, or support people of color who are working for change. Another example is someone who cheats on their spouse, and confesses and asks for forgiveness … but still keeps on flirting with coworkers. The point is not to feel bad about what you did wrong, it’s to step onto a new path, a better path. To change, so that you can grow in faith and love.
Change is hard. Growth is hard. Growing pains are no joke. But it’s still better than the alternative. And the thing is, we don’t have to do it alone. We do not have to pull ourselves up by our own bootstraps. Because the Lord is with us. In the prophet Malachi’s words, we are not the smith purifying the silver, we are the silver being purified. We are not the one doing the cleaning, we are the thing being cleaned. God is the one doing the purifying, the cleaning. God is the one taking away sins and making people better. God is the one who began good work in us and among us. We are called to participate in the work! We are called to repent and turn around and ask forgiveness and share in God’s grace and let the love of God overflow in us and around us. We are not called to paper over the cracks, we are called to fix them. And, when they are too big for us to fix, we are called to give them into God’s hands for God to fix.
The true spirit of Christmas is not about pasting a smile over our hurts, and using lights and presents and food to pretend things are great when they’re not. The true spirit of Christmas is about doing the hard work to heal what is broken and clean what needs cleansing so that the love of God can flow freely in us and among us. It’s about placing ourselves in God’s hands and allowing God to make the changes that are to big for us to make ourselves. It’s about turning around, and letting God put us on the right path, the path towards love and wisdom and justice and hope, even when it’s hard, even when it requires us to grow and change. May we have the courage and strength to follow the way of the Lord.
Amen.